Wedding Season Style Guide: Tie or Bow Tie? Everything You Need to Know

Wedding bells are ringing, and whether you're the groom, a groomsman, or a guest, your neckwear is key. You can't afford to be the guy showing up in a worn-out, floppy tie. Here’s how to nail your look, whether you’re saying "I do" or just saying "cheers!"

🤵 The Groom: Making a Statement

Your Goal: You need to stand out from your groomsmen, but still coordinate.

• The Tie Move: Go for a texture or pattern that’s similar to, but richer than, the others. If your groomsmen wear solid silk, you wear a textured silk or wool blend in the same color family.

• The Bow Tie Move: If everyone is wearing a bow tie, you should consider a unique fabric like velvet (for a winter wedding) or a distinct, high-quality jacquard silk (for a formal wedding).

🤵 The Groomsmen: Uniformity is Key

Your Goal: Support the groom and complement the bridal party's colors.

• The Tie Move: Stick to a matching style and knot (usually Half-Windsor or Four-in-Hand). If the wedding is outside, consider a linen or cotton tie.

• The Hisdern Solution: Our curated Wedding Tie Bundles are designed for groomsmen. They ensure perfect color matching and often come with matching pocket squares and cufflinks—zero stress, maximum style.

🥂 The Guest: Respectful Flair

Your Goal: Look great without upstaging the wedding party.

• The Tie Move: This is where you can be a bit more playful! Think bold paisley, vibrant stripes, or seasonal colors (e.g., light blue in summer, deep burgundy in fall). Avoid white ties, which look too much like the formal black-tie uniform.

• The Bow Tie Move: A fun, patterned bow tie (like a polka dot or floral) is fantastic for less formal daytime weddings.

Key Takeaway: If the invitation says "Black Tie," you must wear a black bow tie. If it doesn't, choose based on the venue: formal indoor calls for silk, casual outdoor calls for texture. Look sharp, celebrate well!